tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-79442655563781541832024-03-14T10:01:32.851+08:00My Daily Tickling...Just a little reminder of my silly encounters, be it happy or sad, exciting or dull, crazy or brilliant...I have it all here!Melissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16096888677963010947noreply@blogger.comBlogger440125truetag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7944265556378154183.post-84583028363836173732012-07-01T23:36:00.001+08:002012-07-01T23:36:32.712+08:00Serenity<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>It was raining this evening but I had to do my usual running regime. Hence, went to my condo at Gateway Kiaramas to use the gym. It is actually my first time there since it completed building couple of years back. I can conclude, it's the place I want to be!</div>Melissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16096888677963010947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7944265556378154183.post-13908113801223837892012-06-26T22:53:00.001+08:002012-06-26T22:53:16.447+08:00I was at a seminar couple of months back and I was listening to a speaker presenting on T. Harv Eker's jar system for financial planning. A very interesting concept therefore I'm going to try and apply this and see if it works. Feel free to join me =)<br />
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Have fun applying it!!! =)Melissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16096888677963010947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7944265556378154183.post-56480661637205973912012-06-26T21:09:00.003+08:002012-06-26T21:09:57.994+08:00Tuned in...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="background-color: black; color: white;">Most people seems to be amazed that I could actually stay friends with my ex-es. My question is...Why not?? Their question is...How the h*ll?</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: black; color: white;">To me, it's simple. The main reason I get into a relationship is because I can relate to someone on a physical, emotional and mental level...someone I could call a friend, a mentor and a lover. If things don't work out on a lover level, it's okay. We can stay friends and be each other's mentor. Lets face it, there really is no happiness in forcing each other to stay together for the sake of...anything! If I get to a roadblock, I speak to him. Not shout, speak. If he feels the same way like I do, it's best we move on with our lives looking for things that would make us both happy. I would be lying if I said it was easy. It ain't. But the thing is, I know that short moment of pain will give me the freedom to be happy for a long period of time. I will definitely bare that pain.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: black; color: white;">Feelings might often be in the way, those deja vu moments, glimpse of places you've been together, belongings of each other in your possession etc. but ultimately, there's no point in dragging the past to the future if they are not willing to follow. Believe in yourself that you could always find someone who could be your friend, mentor AND lover. It is not easy but sometimes the grass is really greener on the other side. Don't settle for less but settle for what you are happy with...and I am sure no one would be happy with less.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: black; color: white;">Personally, I do not want to loose a friend and/or a mentor just because we couldn't proceed as lovers. It would be such a waste! Have respect to yourself by appreciating the fact that YOU chose that person to be your lover. If you are filled with hate and disgust towards him, doesn't it reflect upon YOU that YOU made the bad choice? Don't regret...always look on the bright side and learn from mistakes. That is how you gain experience and squeeze more juice out from the lemons of your life to make quality lemonades =)</span>Melissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16096888677963010947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7944265556378154183.post-92162634358702972192012-06-21T01:01:00.002+08:002012-06-21T01:01:26.620+08:00Hypoc----Don't preach what you DIDN'T practice.Melissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16096888677963010947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7944265556378154183.post-19485365627498618312012-06-19T23:41:00.001+08:002012-06-19T23:41:07.198+08:00Nike: Just do it!<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>It is frustrating sometimes when you see people getting so worked out on the same problems over and over again.<br/>
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I always believe in my heart. If I feel it, I'm doing it. Of course within reason...think of the consequences too. If u can handle the consequences or outcomes, go for it. Do what makes you happy. Ignore what other people might think or say. So long you are happy, just do it!!!</div>Melissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16096888677963010947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7944265556378154183.post-24814689260129615372012-06-18T23:11:00.002+08:002012-06-18T23:11:53.807+08:00The attraction...I feel blessed today.<br />
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Sometimes I think the Law of Attraction actually works. The more positive energy you disperse, the more positive things are attracted to you.<br />
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Always feel blessed with what you have. In that process, peace and tranquillity will come along side happiness and positive events =)Melissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16096888677963010947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7944265556378154183.post-9280845482085755272012-06-17T22:54:00.001+08:002012-06-17T22:54:16.884+08:00Something to ponder...When you are ready, it will come.<div>
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Every individual is different and there is always a debate on who or what is right. Ultimately, we just have to weigh them out. The total essence of success is very much based on the foundation of happiness, peace and understanding =)</div>Melissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16096888677963010947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7944265556378154183.post-11894347846159129902012-06-16T23:15:00.002+08:002012-06-17T00:26:17.165+08:008 Achievements of the daySuper hectic day today. Finally in my comfy bed, tunes on, fingers tapping away. I achieved a couple of things today and I am very proud of myself!<br />
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Visiting a Charity organization and would very much like to volunteer if they need me =)<br />
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Getting to KFC PJ 14/20 from home, for the first time..and not getting lost!!!<br />
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Socializing and actually doing it alone without my mother's assistance! In the process, I gained a few contacts! Awesome!<br />
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Getting to Jalan Ampang, KL from Section 14, PJ via....I'm not sure where but all I saw was signboards leading me to Cheras and Puchong. Then I landed somewhere near Mid Valley, then Chow Kit, then Semarak, KLCC and finally there an hour later. Achievement because it was a long journey and I did it. lol!<br />
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JOINING TOASTMASTERS!!! Took a role in the next TM meeting as an Ah-counter and actually booked myself in to do my first ice-breaker speech on the 7th July (please come and support me!).<br />
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I really like kids. They make me smile =)<br />
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Spent RM2xx at Isetan KLCC on a drop-dead-gorgeous dress, two formal skirts and lingerie. Achievement because I now have more formal skirts for work =D LOL!<br />
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Being thankful for all the above and actually typing this post =) Some pictures of the day:<br />
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It was purely an assumption made that most 1988 born men actually find older women more attractive...and would actually date them. By older I meant 15years or older women. So here comes the debate. Is it acceptable??? Well personally, I will be thinking................WHAT THE FUCK?!??!?? No, this is not a inferiority complex shit...it is pure senseless logic. Well, to me. A female friend of mine mentioned that it is like "having a mother taking care of you". I find that very logical. So is it that men my age is actually going for older women because they do not have that motherly love? Okay this sounds very psychological but I think it could be a possible explanation. But then again, maternal instinct is always in women in general...hence, the nagging??? Don't get me wrong, I am not generalizing men... I am just questioning those who actually date 15years older women and think it is okay.</div>
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Then again, another friend of mine mentioned that "What's worse is that there are women that age who are interested in boys your (my) age". Yeah, that seemed to be a WTF moment for me too. Guess the guys are not solely to be blamed for their blood rushing to their penis but also the older women not differentiating what is morally right. Then again, women are being smart (further explanation below) =) . Yes, there is a term called MILF but it is purely a fantasy and not something to be condoned in reality. I guess it very much depends on what a guy wants...a relationship or a funship. If you are looking for funship and experience, yeah go for it. But if you are looking for a relationship, you are barking up the wrong tree.</div>
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Based on couple of studies done across culture and race, it was concluded that women look for stability in men when it comes to looking for a partner. Men on the other hand, focused on the physical appearance. So if Miss 48-year old thinks Mr 24-year old could provide her with the stability she needs and if Mr 24-year old is happy with Miss 48-year old's physical appearance, I pronounce you mad and insane. Having said that, I'm sure there are 24-year old men who are VERY stable and I respect that. Date all the MILF, GIFL and GGIFL you want (you sick bastard). Just don't get into a relationship with a way older woman and wonder wtf happened when you get ditched. Guess the results of the studies comes in hand when your blood rushes back to your brain in your skull. Older women here are being smart by using young men to re-live their younger days. They are for sure looking for funship and not a relationship. Do I blame them??? Smart women.</div>
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As a back-to-blogging post, I will briefly touch on what has happened to me in the past 6 months and lessons I've learnt. May I highlight the word...BRIEFLY =) If you know me well, you will know I have a lot to talk/type about.<br />
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It wasn't easy settling back to the way things are as I have been gone for 4 years. No, I am not being cocky and turning English...I am still very much Malaysian. It is hard to explain the changes that I am going through to people who have not been there and done that. Furthermore, I have been all by myself those 4 years and it pretty much gave me the freedom to do anything and everything my way. Being back home, there are many more things to be considered...relatives, family, friends, society, past/present/future employers, criminals and yeah..you get my drift. Well, criminals because I can't carry my handbag out without having a spasm from clutching my handbag too hard! *drama queen mode-back hand on forehead* Oh the psychological and physical trauma!!!<br />
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Anyway, I was pretty much ready to run away from the reality of being here...but I snapped out of it and realized that reality is reality....and I will have to face it. It can't be that bad...right? Well, let's see...I've been in a brief employment with ABC company and in a super brief relationship with DEF guy (least it's a guy, I think). Yeah, it's been awesome!!! <inserts sarcastic="" smile=""> Having said that, I am grateful that I am where I am today and having what I have. I am starting employment with a company next week doing what I REALLY want to do and I have pretty much gave up on investing my time and efforts on anyone within the male population. Yes, it took me through a bumpy ride but I am glad I arrived safe. There is way much more things in my life that is worth investing my time...especially for myself =)</inserts><br />
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I recently met a few individuals and they were people who made me realized that I am wasting my youth! You only live every year once and it's irreversible (duh)!!! It is so important to set your goals right and go for it. Some of us might just figure it out ourselves but some of us might need that guidance or that one friend to push us to do something different...something MORE. I might be a late starter to have a resolution list but at least I am starting it...like the old saying, better late than never. And yes, continue blogging consistently is definitely on the list!!! So, stay tuned!!! xoxoMelissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16096888677963010947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7944265556378154183.post-71357790030760131642012-03-21T14:48:00.000+08:002012-03-21T14:48:14.142+08:00Coming up...Too many thinks in my mind. I should take it one at a time. It is unfortunate that us humans have so many ideas and thoughts but when it comes to actually taking action, very few of us could actually do it.<br />
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I am determined to be one of those few who actually takes action. Focus! Focus! Focus!Melissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16096888677963010947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7944265556378154183.post-53387420621436168972012-02-26T00:35:00.000+08:002012-02-26T00:35:20.696+08:00Abandoned...yet again!I am so sorry for not spending some time to blog! I am currently still looking for a job which means I should have time to blog....NO, not really.<br />
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Anyway, past month been very educating. Seen some sides of people around me. What am I going to do? Well I will just take into consideration things I've learnt and go with the flow. I ain't cut out for the strategic planning nonsense. Hence, I thing it will be a struggle for me to be in the business line. That aside, still looking for a job that is...me.<br />
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<i><span style="color: #666666;">Sometimes when you are stuck between two, you feel like you are the victim. Feelings are sometimes unjustifiable.</span></i>Melissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16096888677963010947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7944265556378154183.post-72510755902624254562012-01-31T23:25:00.001+08:002012-01-31T23:25:51.743+08:00Stressed!I need to bake!Melissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16096888677963010947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7944265556378154183.post-79948715639828046932012-01-15T23:35:00.000+08:002012-01-15T23:35:37.184+08:00What's right and what's wrong?!?I might've blogged about this before but it would be ages ago. Just have to bring it up again. Most people think what they do is right and that they expect others to react or behave the way the expect them to. But in reality, every individual is different! Not even twins would choose the same food, same guy, same course, same job or same hairstyle!!! Well my point is people should understand and accept others for their choices. If I want to drive a pink car, I am driving a pink car...not you! You are not in the car, you are not driving the car, you are not buying the car, you are not using the car...it's none of your business!!! Just look for something to do that's related to YOUR life.<br />
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Just because you've once chosen the wrong path, doesn't mean the path you once chose will be wrong for another person. The consequences will be different as time change, things change. It is so very important to have the value of acceptance and an understanding heart to ensure you have a healthy mindset. Yes, it is naturally human nature to talk about others and not realise we are the ones behaving the way we object. But it doesn't have to be that way, we can change. We can change for the benefit of the future of humankind. Stop objecting what people do and concentrate on your own life. If advice is not asked for, keep your advice to yourself. This is 2012. A 23year old is an adult...especially when they don't get pocket money no more!Melissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16096888677963010947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7944265556378154183.post-22924521969271662662012-01-06T09:44:00.001+08:002012-01-06T09:44:38.115+08:00Will you?<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'><a href='http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qgp7hlkfstI&feature=youtube_gdata_player'>http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Qgp7hlkfstI&feature=youtube_gdata_player</a></div>Melissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16096888677963010947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7944265556378154183.post-27685890541795133422012-01-05T19:17:00.001+08:002012-01-05T19:17:10.517+08:00Ignore this.<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>Testing blogdroid...blogging from my phone.</div>Melissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16096888677963010947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7944265556378154183.post-30578102055494696582012-01-04T00:37:00.001+08:002012-01-04T00:52:06.225+08:00Superman<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
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<i><span style="text-align: -webkit-left;">Tall, dark and super manly</span><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><span style="text-align: -webkit-left;">Puts papers in his briefcase and drives away</span><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><span style="text-align: -webkit-left;">To save the world or go to work</span><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><span style="text-align: -webkit-left;">It's the same thing to me</span><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><span style="text-align: -webkit-left;">He's got his mother's eyes, his father's ambition</span><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><span style="text-align: -webkit-left;">I wonder if he knows how much that I miss him</span><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><span style="text-align: -webkit-left;">I hang on every word you say</span><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><span style="text-align: -webkit-left;">You'll smile and say "How are you?"</span><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><span style="text-align: -webkit-left;">And I'll say, "Just fine"</span><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><span style="text-align: -webkit-left;">I always forget to tell you I love you</span><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><span style="text-align: -webkit-left;">I'll love you forever</span><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><span style="text-align: -webkit-left;">I watched Superman fly away</span><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><span style="text-align: -webkit-left;">You've got a busy day today</span><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><span style="text-align: -webkit-left;">Go save the world</span><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><span style="text-align: -webkit-left;">I'll be around</span><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><span style="text-align: -webkit-left;">I watched Superman fly away</span><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><span style="text-align: -webkit-left;">Come back, I'll be with you someday</span><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><span style="text-align: -webkit-left;">I'll be right here on the ground</span><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><span style="text-align: -webkit-left;">When you come back down</span><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><span style="text-align: -webkit-left;">Tall, dark and beautiful</span><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><span style="text-align: -webkit-left;">He's complicated, he's irrational</span><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><span style="text-align: -webkit-left;">But I hope someday he'll take me away</span><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><span style="text-align: -webkit-left;">And save the day, yeah</span><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><span style="text-align: -webkit-left;">Something in his deep brown eyes has me saying</span><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><span style="text-align: -webkit-left;">He's not all bad like his reputation</span><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><span style="text-align: -webkit-left;">And I can't hear one single word they say</span><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><span style="text-align: -webkit-left;">And you'll leave, got places to be</span><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><span style="text-align: -webkit-left;">And I'll be okay</span><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><span style="text-align: -webkit-left;">I always forget to tell you I love you</span><br style="text-align: -webkit-left;" /><span style="text-align: -webkit-left;">I loved you from the very first day</span></i><br />
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Welcome back, Melissa to the country of censored music on the radio =) How is the word "morphine" dangerous?! I just don't get it...does refraining one from using/hearing the word morphine keep you away from the dangers of it? I think it will make people ignorant...you probably can't even get morphine over the counter anyway?! Right?! Okay I have a lot to update myself on about this country. I am not being ignorant but this is the effect of moving countries =S<br />
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How am I coping? I guess I am fine...beside the unexpected swollen limbs and overused muscles!!! Went to see the doctor on NYD and all he gave me was a cream that smelt like Tiger Balm and couple of Paracetamol pills (which you can buy in shelves in London, similar to Panadol here) #tryingtoadapttochanges<br />
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<i><span style="color: #999999; font-size: x-small;">If you don't know what you want, don't expect me to wait around for you...</span></i>Melissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16096888677963010947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7944265556378154183.post-52917223067153093182012-01-03T01:08:00.000+08:002012-01-03T01:08:52.129+08:00HAPPY 2012!!!Greetings to people all over the world!<br />
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I am just re-starting my blog again, I mean I WILL try...<br />
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Wishing you all a very Happy New Year and may this year brings you good things in every aspect of your life!<br />
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Much <3 xxMelissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16096888677963010947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7944265556378154183.post-84004429606549125802011-01-16T23:08:00.000+08:002011-01-16T23:08:33.276+08:00AddictionI have an addiction........<br />
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This.....is.....not.....good!!!Melissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16096888677963010947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7944265556378154183.post-35394790914218416232011-01-04T08:53:00.000+08:002011-01-04T08:53:18.911+08:00Latest shopa du-doo~<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div>As you can see the dates on the picture itself, my latest shopping was last year =p LOL! Anyway, I was out for some retail therapy and got some deals =) Pictures not that awesome but still viewable so...yeah =) Below are few of the dresses I bought for only 2GBP each!!! Yeah, the shop was closing down so EVERYTHING in the shop was going at 5pieces for 10pds!!! Woooooootss!<br />
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</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MuoqDHVxaJc/TSJsxcmfrxI/AAAAAAAAE4E/_vdr8lmysdI/s1600/received_15.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_MuoqDHVxaJc/TSJsxcmfrxI/AAAAAAAAE4E/_vdr8lmysdI/s400/received_15.jpg" width="239" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">This dress under was also in the 2pds deal. But the jacket is from another shop...Primany =p lol! And it was on sale for 5pds. Love the military detail!</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br />
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</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">Going back to work tomorrow (acutally today) after a two week Christmas/New Year break. Hopefully I would be as hard working as my bestie, Grace Lee who turns up for work AN HOUR earlier everyday. Bless her! =) That's all from me now! XOs!</div>Melissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16096888677963010947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7944265556378154183.post-15224059196859386982010-12-30T10:22:00.001+08:002011-01-01T03:28:20.870+08:00Appreciation...Hello hello people! Guess who is back =) The......erm.....ME!!! Lol! I would like to make the very first come-back post about fashion but I...will have to delay that. Just have few things to get off my chest! Well like I mentioned before, this blog is going to be mainly about my fashion updates but with a little on FOOD and daily DRAMAs =)<br />
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To begin my post (the above is just a lil sneak peek), I'd like to mention that 2010 has been rather rocky for me. Too many happenings, both happy and sad....some of them I truly had that "WTF" feeling but generally everything is cool. I guess I am just the kind of girl that has learn to accept what's been done and make the most of what I have =) If you know me well by now, you should know that I don't like to "regret" on thing's I've chosen to do...I'v learnt to live by it and look on the bright side of every shit that poops on me =) Like they say...when a bird poops on you, just thank God that cows don't fly!!!<br />
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I have encountered few "types" of people lately and it is starting to tick me off! I would not want to state the gender as that would make me look like I'm generalizing and thus make me a feminist. Ops...that gave away *rolls eyes*. Sometimes I wonder how did the phrase 'Women are complicated' arrived?!?! As far as I know, men are the more complicated beings!!! I won't go into detail!!! I will speak from a third person point of view.<br />
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Sorry but I do not understand why people would kill themselves for love...lately the suicide news on <a href="http://hubpages.com/hub/young-teen-alviss-kong-committed-suicide-after-leaving-final-messages-on-facebook">Alviss Kong</a> made me wonder why people let go of such precious life because of a failed 4mth relationship??? Is it love or just pure self confidence issue? Well I can't speak for Alvin, R.I.P. but I feel that whenever one decides to take their own life, they should think about other people. Plan-to-suicide-rs should think about their family who've done so much for them, their friends who've appreciate their company, and that there are so many more people in the world going through life with no shelter and food to eat! Here you are, wasting the food you ate, clothes you had on your back and shelter you had over your head.<br />
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To be honest, that is what kept me sane after all I've been through. I believe everyone on earth has gone through that 'What if I kill myself now? I won't have to worry bout that any more! That problem will go away!' stage. But...if you're gone, how are you going to enjoy the 'problem' not being there anymore? Makes sense? I guess it is important for us to find that something to give us the will to jump back on the horse when it does that 'ehh hooor'-raise legs thing and slams us on the ground. When I wish for that Prada bag, I am just thankful that I have 20 unbranded ones than none! When I wish for that Jimmy Choo pair of shoes, I am just thankful that I have shoes to put on my feet (I am not going to mention the number) than <a href="http://www.robertpalumbo.com/sudan1_1.html">this</a>. When I wish for a clean house, I am just thankful that I have a house to live in. When I wish for that love and support from a man, I am just thankful that I have my family and friends...because I know most men can't be trusted =) LOL!<br />
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See, I may not have that expensive car, bag, shoes, or 'special one' but I know as long as I live, I would have the chance to make that happen. Ohh and another thing I've learnt...don't think about pleasing the whole effing world and make yourself miserable!!! You seriously live just once and NO one knows what happens after you die so why not make use of this one life? Everyone is unique, if bad boy Jimmy don't like you, know that gentleman Joe is caught in traffic and is just around the corner. Oh and that bitchy Sarah, she will be there for Jimmy =) They are a perfect match, and you with Joe are one too. Everyone deserves to be happy no matter what makes them happy...be it a cut-throat pair of diamond earrings, or a bungalow in Malibu, a humble man, or even just a stick of cotton candy.<br />
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I guess my whole point is there is too much love to go around on Earth and if you are not getting it from where you are, adjust your antenna, just couple of inches left or right and it will give you the best channels you could get your love from. May I add, in every romantic movies, there is no such thing as 'Ohh that's just in the movies!'. Eff that! If it is in the movies, it could happen in real life! Every story is an inspiration to someone, hence, romance movies! If you are single and haven't been appreciated, keep adjusting the antenna till you find a channel. If you are attached and haven't been appreciated, change your channel (PS: 2011 is coming up!). If you are in a complicated situation and haven't been appreciated, choose the channel that tickle your fancy...doesn't matter even if it is blur and fuzzy. You deserve to be happy!!!Melissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16096888677963010947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7944265556378154183.post-70294032980790075302010-08-20T19:59:00.000+08:002010-08-20T19:59:16.301+08:00What's new?!?!As I have abandoned my lovely blog for such a long time and made my readers (if any) redundant, I will now re-start my blog =)<br />
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Thank you for your patience and loyalty.<br />
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Previously I have blogged about various experiences and daily dramas...now I would like to focus my blog on fashion =) and maybe a little on food...and daily dramas...LOL! But more on fashion (because I LOVE shopping). As I am currently reconstructing my blog, please allow for minor faults here and there. Feel free to give feedbacks on my comment box.<br />
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Till the next post, XOXOMelissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16096888677963010947noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7944265556378154183.post-6164233964003688912010-03-10T07:27:00.002+08:002010-03-10T07:38:57.175+08:00QuickieYes, I have been MIA again!<br /><br />Well to be honest, I really didn't have the time to blog! Life is pretty much hectic at the moment. I am either working or relaxing on my days of or looking for jobs the rest of the time! The weather ain't helping either! It's already March!!! Change season please! Sheesh!<br /><br />Anyway, life is starting to stress me out! I really didn't know coming out on my own is that much of a responsibility! Pft! Well to be honest, the past two years here, my accomodation was paid for by my mum so I had to work for my expenses only. Now, I have to work for my rent too! And mind you, it is 340pounds a month! Couple more days and my bank account is 340 short! Eeeeek! Trust me, this is REALLY stressful! Although so, I do not stinge on food (Mum, this is for you to know!). LOL! I FINALLY had the heart to buy the goddamn mahal Milo and it is so tiny =.= Oh well, tahan for now I guess. I am just used to a warm drink at night before bed =) Don't even talk about Horlicks, cut throat!<br /><br />I guess I better get to bed, before I fall dead asleep in the bus on the way to and back from work (which happened today!) and miss my stop (haven't happen to me...yet!). LOL! Thank you to you loyalties that's still checking my blog! LOL! xxMelissahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16096888677963010947noreply@blogger.com0