Dinner and Colours

Dinner tonight:

Herbal chicken soup noodle =D

I was so excited to take a taste of it and only realized I forgot to take picture until half of it is digesting in my stomach =p Hence, one of the chicken drumstick bone in the small bowl. LOL! I know it's not a pleasing picture but...oh well =p Hope you're not eating while reading this.

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Story time...

In this new century, women are more outspoken than before. They strive harder in anyway, from career to personal achievement, even in romance. I remembered when I was still in high school, juniors in our high school really stepped up! Especially the girls. They were the ones doing the courting =S And the typical guys trying to look cool by acting like they don't care. Back then I thought, damn these girls are desperate! Now, I still thought of it that way. To be fair, I know it is a mutual thing but I wouldn't bother making the first move. If he makes the first move, I would know that he was the one who's interested in me more than I was in him.

Materialistic world. I don't know about other people but to me, having accessories, clothes and bags and shoes to match around makes me happy. I read a blog post from a successful millionaire businessman and he was saying that he spends wisely and all that and got to where he is today. He doesn't spend on materialistic things to make him happy. He said, people who needs to spend money to buy things to make themselves happy are living an unfulfilling life. Sorry, but BS?!

If you don't have a XX gene, you've never worn make-up, a dress, carry a Gucci, or strut in a pair of Jimmy Choo, and never had PMS before, do us sisters a favour...zip it! Most women feel happy shopping and buying things for themselves but it doesn't mean that they are not living a fulfilling life without all those. That is what make us bust our ass to compete with the males to climb up to higher positions. We want to earn more so we could keep buying things. It's call motivation! The kind that you never thought of. Somehow, the society is gender bias in some countries!

I think a woman should be independent. I'm not saying we should extinguish the dudes (because we need them in some way) but we should take the initiative to build our own foundation rather than hanging on to some rich (or not) guy like a parasite. One day he's gonna call you and say, "Please vacate my 5 storey mansion within an hour with all your belongings excluding what I've bought for you because I'm having a guest over". Knowing that he bought everything for you, you will be leaving with just a 20x20 hand carry that's big enough to put all your personal belongings in. Sad. Tragic.

Now, wouldn't it be better if you've got our own career, your own house (just in case you don't feel like hearing his snores), definitely your own sports car (chicks drive hot cars =p), your own build-in wardrobe with endless pieces of apparel, your own bling box with all kinds of coloured accessories enough to match each apparel, watches, shoes, bags and so on? Totally! At least if things won't work out between you two, you always have your belongings to cheer you up =) How can you ever feel depressed in this:

Colours! Love them!

Although I rarely wear some of them but looking at them makes me happy =D Okay I know the picture doesn't look that nice but those looks real nice on a body...seriously! So yea, don't wait for your guy to buy things for you...get it yourself =) New century...guys don't get things for their gfs anymore. To them spending on their games and boy toys comes first. Or they simply lack romance =p Whatever the reason is, don't wait for them to get your blings...it might never come!